Dress Appropriately for the First Date

Looks ARE important, but not because you want to show off your spectacular muscles or toned arms. By taking the time to dress and groom yourself prior to your date, you demonstrate confidence and self-respect. It also shows your date that you're willing to put in that extra effort to look good for him or her.

But don't dress in your tuxedo just because it looks good, either. Make sure that what you wear matches where you're going. If you're meeting for a cup of coffee and a walk in the park, consider a nice tailored casual outfit that's functional but still looks good. If you're confused on what to wear, always go with slightly over-dressing rather than coming off as too casual. Your date will assume you've simply been excited about the date and put in that much more effort to dress to impress!

Meet Somewhere

Rather than risk getting too personal, opt to meet your date at the restaurant or coffee house. You can always pick her up at her place on the next date, but you don't want to invade her space this early. Get flowers, arrive a little early, and wait for her to show up. This way you come across as prepared and gentlemanly! And yes, flowers are still essential.

Manners and Etiquette

Courtesy still counts and you'll want to make sure you follow all the rules of etiquette. While it may seem old fashioned, you can NEVER go wrong by following old fashioned etiquette. Men, hold doors open for women, pull chairs out, stand when they leave the table, and pay for the check (even if SHE asked YOU). Ladies, smile, thank him, and be gracious for all of these things. Although you are both there for a good time, manners count! Be cool and subtle when you hold open the door and don't over-think manners at dinner. It's not about using the right fork as much as it is about respecting your date.

Offer to Share

Part of the beauty of a first date is trying to determine how you can share things in the future. After all, you're courting each other! Consider discussing the menu and finding two dishes that look good to both of you. Try new things, discuss the meal, and taste each other's food. Not only can be physically bonding, it can also be fun!

End the First Date with Style

If you both had a great time, say so! While some people make it a rule to never kiss on the first date, most people are open to an embrace. But don't kiss like it's your first time, either. Make it count! First kisses are just as important as first impressions. Kiss with your heart as much as your lips and end the night with a smile and a warm "Thank you." Tell her what an amazing time you had and solidify another date for the future.

Of course, if the night didn't go well, thank him or her anyway, but don't promise to call them if you don't think you will.

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